Thursday, October 06, 2016

Honesty risky on dating sites

Many women have unrealistic views of their own desirability  but you must not say so

A PERTH man has been branded a “creep” after he shut down a woman on a dating website because he doesn’t “consider dating women who are over 30 and overweight.”

A Scottish woman from Edinburgh messaged ‘Ash’ on dating website Plenty Of Fish (POF) “just to say hi,” said the woman’s sister, who shared the interaction on Facebook. “OK, so my sister messaged someone on an online dating site just to say hi ... and got this,” she wrote.

‘Ash’ replied with an extensive message explaining why he refuses to date women over 30.

“I was specific with age because I would like to start a family one day and, to be honest, I think that the necessary timeline before doing so is shortened/compressed with a lady over 30,” he wrote.

“I was also specific about weight as I have never been attracted to big women. However since moving to Scotland and going on POF [Plenty of Fish, the dating app] I have learned that ‘average body type’ is commonly held to be around a dress size 14/16.

“I had to google this, but that dress size, with a waist around 34 inches, indicates a woman as being very overweight and all likelihood medically obese.”



Spurwing Plover the fighting shorebird said...

Aww poor little snowflakes their feeling are hurt How more pathetic can they get?

Anonymous said...

So honesty is no longer a virtue? It has become less so with the prevailing leftist/socialist dogma increasingly enforced onto society by insecure people. A bit like the safe zones for insecure university students who shouldn't be there in the first place and wouldn't be there if it was for the lefties creating useless degrees on the public purse. If you are afraid of criticism then don't put your details on a dating site. What happened to beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

Anonymous said...

So the guy doesn't date fat chicks. Who cares!!Somebody out there will love them, just not him. Get over it.

Anonymous said...

The guy may be honest but it is no excuse for being brutal too.

Anonymous said...

It is amazing that the majority of overweight women believe that they are highly desirable due to their "inner self". The truth is that there is something wrong with the inner self if they do not take care of the outer self.


stinky said...

The attractiveness of youth and beauty exists because males seek fertility indicators. It exists for the same reason opposable thumbs exist.

Olaf Koenders said...

Nice one Stinky.

Beauty is a natural technology to advance the species as is the opposable thumb. Surely there MUST have been something Neanderthal found attractive in his women, besides her opposable thumb. Eye of the beholder.

Just like blokes pick sheilas for certain reasons, shoe on the other foot is very similar, depending on the income of the suburb or length of the burka.

If the guy's only got a single bed, surely he won't upgrade to a king just to accommodate some heifer, let alone upgrade the suspension on his car.

Anonymous said...

I see nothing wrong with it. People have a right to their preference in other people. Women have their preferences in men.

Olaf Koenders said...

On a slightly off-topic, women often complain about being objectified by men. However, much of a woman's time is spent objectifying herself and her friends.

So why do they complain when they're often so busy making themselves attractive?

1. To make other women jealous.
2. To ensure men objectify them so they can complain.

If a muscly bloke comes into view, they quickly tell each other that it looks disgusting, but that's a blatant lie.

I love bodybuilding. They objectify me instead.

Anonymous said...

Yooz guys are never get laid. Just jerking off, eating Cheetos, in your parents' basement.

Olaf Koenders said...

Assignment report for Anon 3:21 AM:

Spelling: 8/10
Punctuation: 9/10
Grammar: 5/10
Relevance to subject matter: 0/10

To Mrs. Anon:

Your child is subject to unusual and nonsensical outbursts akin to a Warmist which are nothing more than obstructionist and a distraction in the classroom. That is, when your child actually chooses to make an appearance. Allowing your child to lock themselves in the basement or attic whilst eating Cheetos is far from beneficial.

I must clarify that my girlfriend allows me to do what your child attests right in her face and, anywhere else she points to as a target.

Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Olaf Koenders ,

Why did you single out 3:21 for what is obviously a spoof on all of the bird shit? Any rational person can see that.